What does it mean to hate yourself

Self-hatred is personal self-loathing or hatred of oneself, or low self-esteem[1] which may lead to self-harm.

In psychology and psychiatry[edit]

The term "self-hatred" is used infrequently by psychologists and psychiatrists, who would usually describe people who hate themselves as "people with low self-esteem".[1] Self-hatred, self-guilt and shame are important factors in some or many mental disorders, especially disorders that involve a perceived defect of oneself (e.g. body dysmorphic disorder). Self-hatred is also a symptom of many personality disorders, including borderline personality disorder,[2] as well as mood disorders like depression. It can also be linked to guilt for someone's own actions that they view as wrongful, e.g., survivor guilt.[citation needed]

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Self-hatred by members of ethnic groups, gender groups, and religions is postulated to be a result of internalization of hatred of those groups from dominant cultures.

African-Americans[edit]

Racial stereotyping of African-Americans and negative American media portrayals of Black men and women have spread outside of the U.S., influencing people of all races worldwide, and increasing self-hatred.[3][4][5]

Catholics[edit]

Self-hating or "anti-Catholic Catholics" are terms of critique by traditionalist or conservative Catholics to describe modernist or liberal Catholics, especially those who seek to reform doctrine, make secularist critiques of the Catholic Church, or place secular principles above Church teachings.[6][7][8]

Jews[edit]

Theodor Lessing, in his book, Jewish Self-Hatred (1930), identified this as a pathology, “a manifestation of an over identification with the dominant culture and internalization of its prejudices.” There have been studies from sources stated in the scholarly research, “mental illness in Jews often derived from feelings of inferiority and self-hatred resulting from persecution and their subordinate position in society.”[citation needed]

The term has been used to label American Jews accused of hiding their identity “by converting or intermarrying and raising their children in another faith” to overcome sociopolitical barriers due to antisemitism in the United States.[9]

LGBT+ individuals[edit]

Internalized homophobia refers to negative stereotypes, beliefs, stigma, and prejudice about homosexuality and LGBT people that a person with same-sex attraction turns inward on themselves, whether or not they identify as LGBT.[10][11][12]

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Self-deprecation[edit]

Self-deprecation is the act of belittling, undervaluing, or disparaging oneself,[13] or being excessively modest.[14][15] It can be used in humor and tension release.[16]

Self-harm[edit]

Self-harm is a condition where subjects may feel compelled to physically injure themselves as an outlet for depression, anxiety, or anger, and is related with numerous psychological disorders.[17][18][19]

In some cases, self-harm can lead to accidental death or suicide. It is not a definitive indicator, however, of a desire either to commit suicide or even of its consideration.[20]

See also[edit]

  • Anti-Germans (political current)
  • Anti-Japaneseism – Theory from the New Left of Japan
  • Internalized oppression
  • Sadomasochism
  • White guilt

References[edit]

  1. ^ a b "I Hate Myself", by PsychAlive
  2. ^ "Borderline Personality Disorder - Symptoms". WebMD. Retrieved 17 June 2012.
  3. ^ Charles, Christopher A. D. (July 2003). "Skin Bleaching, Self-Hate, and Black Identity in Jamaica". Journal of Black Studies. 33 (6): 711–728. doi:10.1177/0021934703033006001. S2CID 143716772.
  4. ^ Hall, Ronald E. (December 2014). "Self-Hate as Life Threat Pathology Among Black Americans: Black Pride Antidote Vis-à-Vis Leukocyte Telomere Length (LTL)". Journal of African American Studies. 18 (4): 398–408. doi:10.1007/s12111-014-9277-6. S2CID 143574951.
  5. ^ Hall, Ronald E.; Pizarro, Jesenia M. (March 2010). "Unemployment as Conduit of Black Self-Hate: Pathogenic Rates of Black Male Homicide via Legacy of the Antebellum". Journal of Black Studies. 40 (4): 653–665. doi:10.1177/0021934708318664. S2CID 144185874.
  6. ^ Weigel, George (21 June 2011). "Maureen Dowd's Catholic Problem". National Review Online. Retrieved 4 July 2016.
  7. ^ Arkes, Hadley (1 November 1996). "Life Watch: Anti-Catholic Catholics". Crisis Magazine. Retrieved 4 July 2016.
  8. ^ Lawler, Phil (13 July 2011). "Anti-Catholic Catholics". Catholic Culture. Trinity Communications. Retrieved 4 July 2016.
  9. ^ Alperin, Richard M. (September 2016). "Jewish Self-Hatred: The Internalization of Prejudice". Clinical Social Work Journal. 44 (3): 221–230. doi:10.1007/s10615-016-0577-2. S2CID 147008248.
  10. ^ Herek, Gregory M. (April 2004). "Beyond 'Homophobia': Thinking About Sexual Prejudice and Stigma in the Twenty-First Century" (PDF). Sexuality Research and Social Policy. 1 (2): 6–24. doi:10.1525/srsp.2004.1.2.6. S2CID 145788359.
  11. ^ Herek, Gregory M.; Cogan, Jeanine C.; Gillis, J. Roy; Glunt, Eric K. (1997). "Correlates of Internalized Homophobia in a Community Sample of Lesbians and Gay Men". Journal of the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association. 2 (1): 17–25. CiteSeerX 10.1.1.582.7247. OCLC 206392016.
  12. ^ Williamson, I. R. (1 February 2000). "Internalized homophobia and health issues affecting lesbians and gay men". Health Education Research. 15 (1): 97–107. doi:10.1093/her/15.1.97. PMID 10788206.
  13. ^ "Self-deprecation". The Free Dictionary. Farlex. Retrieved 2010-06-08.
  14. ^ Self-Deprecation - Personality & Spirituality
  15. ^ Self-deprecation | Define Self-deprecation at Dictionary.com
  16. ^ Hill, Matthew. "The Funny Thing About Work". Society for Intercultural Training and Research. Archived from the original on 2012-01-20. Retrieved 2011-05-04.
  17. ^ Laye-Gindhu, Aviva; Schonert-Reichl, Kimberly A. (October 2005). "Nonsuicidal Self-Harm Among Community Adolescents: Understanding the 'Whats' and 'Whys' of Self-Harm". Journal of Youth and Adolescence. 34 (5): 447–457. doi:10.1007/s10964-005-7262-z. S2CID 145689088.
  18. ^ Klonsky, D. (2007), "The functions of deliberate self-injury: A review of the evidence", Clinical Psychological Review, 27 (2): 226–239, doi:10.1016/j.cpr.2006.08.002, PMID 17014942
  19. ^ Muehlenkamp, Jennifer J. (2005). "Self-Injurious Behavior as a Separate Clinical Syndrome". American Journal of Orthopsychiatry. 75 (2): 324–333. doi:10.1037/0002-9432.75.2.324. PMID 15839768.
  20. ^ "Understanding Suicide and Self-harm". Psychology Today. Retrieved 2019-02-01.

Further reading[edit]

  • Sander L. Gilman Difference and Pathology: Stereotypes of Sexuality, Race and Madness Cornell University Press, 1985. ISBN 978-0-8014-1785-6
  • Western Eyes video documentary by Ann Shin

What does it mean when u hate yourself?

What Is Self-Loathing? Self-loathing is a feeling that resembles self-hate, as it constantly pushes the idea that you're not good enough. As a consequence, you might feel like you don't deserve love or that bad things happen to you for a reason.

What are reasons to hate yourself?

What causes self-hate?.
You have a harsh inner critic. ... .
Your early childhood experiences. ... .
You have unrealistic expectations. ... .
Bullying. ... .
Identify the emotion and it's triggers. ... .
Challenge negative thoughts. ... .
Spend time with people who lift you up. ... .
Practice positive self-compassion..

Is hating yourself a lot normal?

It is possible hate yourself far too much. A person may dislike their appearance, feel that they aren't good at anything or feel that they treat others badly. Thoughts that can lead to impulses to want to harm or punish themselves. No one should need to live like this.

What do you call someone who hates themselves?

Somebody with a defeatist attitude is self-deprecating and generally displays a lack confidence and self-belief in themself.