How to know a man is falling for you

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A girl could be blushing, smiling, or showing signs naturally when in love, but it could be tricky to know if a man is in love. So maybe figuring out some hidden signs he’s falling in love with you can make you understand him better. You would be desperate to know if he reciprocates the same feelings as you do or it is just a one-sided love. Don’t get frustrated, as our post on some common signs can clarify his feelings for you. Till then, try being subtle, and don’t showcase your emotions for him in an open manner.

Want to know what your guy feels about you? Check out these hidden signs that are a sure way to know that he is falling in love with you.

1. He shows interest in you

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If a man asks you many questions about yourself, he is making an effort to get to know you closely. This is one of the earliest signs that show that a man is falling in love with you.

2. He behaves like a gentleman

If a man behaves like a gentleman and treats you nice, chances are he is falling in love with you.

3. He always sneaks a glance at you

If you look at him suddenly and find them looking at you, he genuinely likes you. This is not a creepy stare but a warm, loving glance that takes your breath away. It indicates that a man is falling in love with you.

4. He maintains eye contact

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A man who maintains eye contact with you longer than that is strictly necessary might be falling in love with you. This eye contact is not the normal one you establish with others. It is more intense and conveys his feelings to you.

5. He tries to make you happy

One of the signs that a man is falling in love with you is that he tries to put a smile on your face. He may crack silly jokes or act funny in your presence to see you happy.

6. He accepts you with your flaws

In the initial days of a relationship, you find every trait of your partner cute, even the annoying ones. However, once the honeymoon period is over, you start seeing them entirely. The man who accepts you unconditionally with all your flaws is falling in love with you.

7. He talks about the future

If a man asks about your aspirations and dreams for the future, he is into you. Little questions such as your dreams or future plans might indicate that he is falling in love with you.

8. He cares for you

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He takes care of your feelings and necessities and makes you feel loved. This is called compassionate love and is a sure sign that a man is falling in love with you.

9. He finds time to be with you

Whatever free time he has, he spends it with you. He enjoys your company and shares his day’s events with you freely. This way, he shows that you are important to him.

10. He remembers the little things

When you are in a relationship, you both share innumerable moments. A man who is falling in love with you remembers all the little things, such as the name of your pet dog or the name of your childhood friend.

11. He makes you feel special

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Whether you wear something new or achieve something at work, your man always has good words to speak for you. When you feel low, he is the first person to make you feel better. If a man continuously compliments you and tries to lift you, he falls in love with you.

12. He is always attentive

On a date or a casual meeting, a man in love with you has eyes only for you. He listens to you carefully and encourages you to speak your heart out.

13. He calls you often

If your man calls you more often than before, it is a sure sign that he is falling in love with you. A man calling you (and often without reason) is a sign that he misses you and wants to be in touch with you.

14. He asks for your opinion

If a man asks for your opinion even on little things, he is falling in love with you. It is not just asking for your opinion; he actually acts on it. It is a sure sign that he respects your opinion and that you are important to him.

15. He can’t stop smiling around you

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A man who cannot stop smiling when he is with you is genuinely falling head over heels in love. He tries to make a good impression on you and wants to appear happy when he is with you. Most importantly, he is thrilled to be with you. He enjoys the time with you, and it shows on his face.

1. How long does it take for a man to fall in love?

On average, it may take weeks or months for guys to fall in love. However, some may have love at first sight, while others may take years to fall in love.

2. What are the stages of falling in love?

The stages of falling in love include having a crush, being friends, attraction, falling in love, and commitment.

Men can be different from women when it comes to expressing their feelings. However, when you notice these subtle signs in your man, his unspoken feelings are showing themselves. Watch out for these hidden signs that a man is falling in love with you and making the next move.

Infographic: Signs That A Man Is Falling In Love With You

If he is not the type to say it out loud, you can get to know him through his gestures and activities around you. To help you spot a few signs, we have prepared this infographic with telltale signs that he is falling in love with you.

Key Pointers

• It is not always easy for a woman to know if the guy is developing romantic feelings or falling in love with her.
• Some obvious signs such as showing interest in you, glancing at you, or making you feel extra special all the time can be indications of his love for you.
• A guy in love can also show some other uncommon signs such as not stopping smiling around you, talking about the distant future with you, etc.

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